Dear Talesha,
These years will find you growing and taking the time to discover yourself. To find what sets your soul on fire. To be unapologetically– you. I hope you know how loved and cared for you are. How many people are looking out for you and your well being.
The hard times that feel ongoing will end. Nothing lasts forever, and you will get through all of them on top. Keep smiling, laughing and having fun. If I told you where you would be in the next 5 years you wouldn’t belieeve me. That part comes from your stubbornness.
You may be asking yourself, “why is this happening to me?” and thats exactly it, it’s happening to you because of where it will take you. You won’t see it now, you won’t even see it soon, but within the next few years, I promise everything will make sense.
Don’t give up in school. I know it’s hard and feels draining, but you are so smart and so talented you will do great. Something I suggest you do at this stage in life is writing. Write down what heals you, what moves you and what drives you. Ask yourself where you want to be in 10 years and never lose sight of that.
Hard times are going to happen, they are going to affect your foundation, but as long as you keep sight on those things, you will remain steady. What I imagine that journal entry would say is…
“Today I’m choosing joy. I’m choosing what brings joy and searching it out. I no longer have time for anything that drains me. I love to write, so I will dedicate an hour a day to that natural form of release.
When I see kindness around me, I want to bottle it up and share it with the world. Share it with people who haven’t had that kindness and warmth in a long time. I want to do good. I want others to see my good works and do the same.
I see myself in ten years happy. I see myself as a wife. I see myself as a mom. I want to change the world and I know I’ll figure out how to one day. I’m driven by motivated people. I’m driven by seeing people take an action step to do something others are too scared to do. I am awesome, and I will have the life I dream of. “
Stay motivated, T.K. Never give up.
You’re going to lose some friendships along the way of life, but that’s okay. Some friendships come and go. However, you will meet a girl one of these 2 years who will stick by your side. Several years down the road, you and her will still call each other, see one another and be soul sisters. Hang on to that friendship and value the goodness it brings to you.
Life is crazy enough as is. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Allow for a little give amidst all the take, take, take that society does. I’m so excited for the day you live the life I’m living right now. You will be happier than you can even imagine. Life is looking up for you, stay positive!
Hugs these next two years as you find balance and happiness in life. It won’t always be smooth sailing, but oh is it worth it. Keep up the good fight. Love you! Shoot for the stars!
All my love,
T.K